Ok people I have found a solution for my problem (hopefully for you guys aswell), I did the following thing.

1.travel to Norway

2. travel back to England/Ravensthorpe

3.do NOT start the quest yet, go up to the top of the hill where valka usually stops and sigurds wife will be standing there. push her down the hill with your horse for a few meters(ill explain this in a sec)

4.go start A Wise Friend, pick up the box and sprint to the blacksmith. sigurds wife will begin moving back toward the longhouse until you reach the blacksmith. we gave you time to get to the blacksmith by pushing her down the hill with the horse earlier.

5. breathe a sigh of relief.

Credit: succmaster69420 from reddit

Hope it works for you guys aswell.

Ok people I have found a solution for my problem (hopefully for you guys aswell), I did the following thing.

1.travel to Norway

2. travel back to England/Ravensthorpe

3.do NOT start the quest yet, go up to the top of the hill where valka usually stops and sigurds wife will be standing there. push her down the hill with your horse for a few meters(ill explain this in a sec)

4.go start A Wise Friend, pick up the box and sprint to the blacksmith. sigurds wife will begin moving back toward the longhouse until you reach the blacksmith. we gave you time to get to the blacksmith by pushing her down the hill with the horse earlier.

5. breathe a sigh of relief.

Credit: succmaster69420 from reddit

Hope it works for you guys aswell.

I still have the problem and did multiple solutions but still didn't work. Does anyone now what I can do or should I just wait so it would be fixed?