@ingel_riday I'm right there with you, brother! When I started playing the new DLC, and saw Kassandra (Deimos) fighting Eivor, I was so confused! Where's my Alexios?? My girlfriend and I were really looking forward to seeing a familiar face within Valhalla's set timeline. We were so disconnected with THIS version of Kassandra, and I stopped playing with that awful realization that I played Odyssey for 400 hours as the wrong sibling!
You can import (re-create) your Hawke's gender and backstory from DragonAge 2 into Inquisition. Why don't we have that choice when it comes to the Eagle Bearer's gender in Valhalla?